i am ready.

The Not-Self is one of the Highest Teachers of humanity. It is formed from the core wounds of oppression and serves as a protective layer for our true soul self⁠. It manifests in three main stages:

Before birth: Through transgenerational transfer, ancestral wounds, and suppressed spiritual gifts⁠
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During birth: Through experiences in the mother's womb, absorbing societal oppressions like racism, sexism, and other systemic biases⁠.
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After birth: Through socialization and cultural norms that shape and incentive us to fit into existing systems⁠.
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While the Not-Self develops as a survival mechanism, its ultimate purpose is to lead us to a point where we recognize the need for transformation. When the not-self becomes unbearable, it signals that we're ready for rebirth - allowing our true soul self to emerge.

the not-self sessions

Illuminate the parts of you that are asking for acknowledgement, attention, & healing so that your Highest Self can birth into the world.

Throughyears of liberation work and practice, shamnic study, indigenous work and healing, I've worked to heal my own Not-Self wounds.

You'll probably come to these sessions when you've exhausted many other options of healing. 

Exhausted from hiding, suppressing or feeling suppressed, we come to confront the Not-Self at the apex of our frustration. 
We have a call deep inside of our Souls that speaks to us that how we are living is not in alignment with who we truly Are.
This is where our work together begins.

Transform Your Relationship with the Not-Self

Together through your 3 or 6 month sessions, we'll discover how your core wounds shape your not-self through deep exploration of:

Pre-birth influences, including ancestral and generational patterns
Suppressed spiritual gifts and life purpose⁠
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In our sessions, we'll work together to identify these foundational patterns that have created your not-self⁠⁠, helping you reconnect with your authentic soul expression.

Book a session to begin your journey of understanding and transformation.

I look forward to offering you my perspective!

-QGYT

let's uncover who you truly are, together.

the not-self is waiting to give you the keys to your soul's highest calling.

begin my transformation

w/ Queen Gogo Yemah

The Not-Self Sessions 

nisha moodley

Celebrating and bowing in deep gratitude for the work of asking us to face our own colonial minds, to own our own projections of expectation and resentment and distaste, to spiral back into belonging and counsel and grief-tending and unbecoming with our own ancestors, to see the hilarious spectacle of our own distortions.

[Queen Gogo Yemah's] work is a reservoir of glorious conviction. Its water is steady, flowing freely from within. And while you’re welcome to drink these gifts, frankly, neither presence nor applause are the aim of her offerings. [This] work will work—whether you like it or not. Like all good medicines, its power is one part mystery, one part its hopefulness to heal.

Phillip howze